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48 | Denver, Colorado

What lies before us and what lies behind us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us-Emerson

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I have a vivid imagination
  • I tend to be meticulous in my duties
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

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in his own words...

I believe that things happen for a reason. I believe that something I write here will speak to the heart of the right person for me to meet. And I'm looking forward to meeting you! Here's my dilemma. I am 42. People say I look anywhere between 26 and 34 but NEVER guess my real age! So I tend to attract younger women. Age doesn't matter, but I tend to be attracted to women who are great communicators, that don't ever lose sight of why we decided to be together. And who are as considerate of me, as I am of them. I've been snowboarding every week this season and practically LIVE (aka PLAY) at Waterworld all summer long! I never slow down. Work or play. I work a lot, I let loose and I play like I'm 12 as often as I can! I think it's my Kung Fu! I think it would be cool to find someone who's a walking contradiction-like myself. Independent but loves having someone to care for at the end of the day-reciprocity rules! Nurturing but not enabling. Honest but not careless. Considerate but not taken advantage of. Comfortable with who you are but always seeking to be a better person-for yourself and for others. You never know, until you know! And life is too short to NOT find out!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any