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43 | San Francisco, California

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He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I am always doing new things
  • I feel emotions more deeply than most people

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Performing arts

Wine tasting

in his own words...

(Kinda) New to California after 10 years in NYC. My job is incredible and enriching. I'm always striving for the healthy balance. I love finding new restaurants and bars, enjoy biking around the city, and heading up and down the coast. Evenings vary from art, music, great food, karaoke... I share a loft in the Mission with an 18 month old mutt named Angus. He really is a man's best friend. I'm learning to appreciate the ocean. My tastes and opinions don't fit easily into little check boxes. My mom and two sisters were very influential in my upbringing. They taught me that respect with understanding is key. Empathy and evolution are two important ideas in all my relationships. Having said this, I don't suffer fools lightly. That's not to say I'm bitter — far from it — but my inability to waste time may be a result of experience (read: middle age). A woman unafraid to make the first move - online or in person - is sexy. Intelligence makes me melt. Bonus points for pinball, or bowling, or Scrabble. I can be competitive in the gaming world, albeit playfully. My parents were born in 1930 so I'm a bit of an old school gentleman at times. I'm an analog nerd: kind of ironic considering my occupation. The word 'hipster' has been thrown my way. I remind these venomous accusers I've had a record player since birth, have always drank my coffee black, and have had chunky, necessary eye wear since 4th grade. (A good friend called me 'pre-hipster': I can dig it). I don't get jealous and I generally don't fair well in relationships with people that do. I'm not necessarily looking for something serious but am open to wherever new experiences may lead. My spare time is very music-centric (writing it, performing it, crafting it), and my friends are my family. I'm a from-the-hip amateur chef — so far no one's complained — and it would be nice to have some fresh tasters. I'm fun, funny, and open to new adventures. Positive people inspire me. Drama is best left to stage and s

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 27 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any