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49 | San Francisco, California

Life's better when shared

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions
  • I would rather have loyal friends than interesting friends
  • I feel emotions more deeply than most people

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in his own words...

So far, life has been pretty interesting. I grew up on the East Coast, but now live in San Francisco. I work in the Film industry making commercials and content for the web. My career is in a good place after many years of paying dues. Now, I'd like to find someone to share my life with, raise a family, and - for lack of a better term – have a normal life. I sewed my wild oats when I was younger, so I don't foresee any mid-life crises coming up. I got all of that out of my system when I was in a band. We toured, I led a minor-league rock'n'roll lifestyle for a while. Now, I'm clean and sober, somewhat boring compared to who I was in my 20s and 30s. Do you believe it's possible for people to change, to grow? I hope so. I am looking for my next relationship to be my last relationship. Let's talk about YOU! You are smart, attractive, witty, have mastery of some skill (music, art, business, foreign language, quilting! something.) You are confident, but not so confident that you think you can do it all alone. You like to talk and you have an opinion which you’re not afraid to share. If asked, “Where would you like to go for dinner tonight?” you’d have a place or two in mind, rather than simply, "I don't know, where do YOU wanna go?" You’re passionate and not afraid to express it. You like to read, you like the arts. Your idea of a good time might include going to see Kevin Spacey in the Sam Mendes-directed Richard III at The Curran Theater. Or hearing Steven Sondheim speak at the JCC. (You have at least HEARD of these guys.) Conversation is like AIR to me - I need it to survive. You have good conversational skills and an active mind. I like nothing more than having a great talk with the people I'm closest to. Smart is sexy, period. The most attractive thing in the world is you, in bed on a Sunday, doing the Times crossword puzzle. If this is you, or pretty close, be bold and send me a message. Thanks!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Jewish
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 27 - 38
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral