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41 | San Francisco, California

Subversive Intellectual Seeking Same...

She is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet she also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those she loves.

Because she is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, her close friends admire her. Yet her complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

She is attracted to someone who can complement her-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • When I see two people madly kissing in public, I’d rather not look
  • I have more energy than most people

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in her own words...

Ok, so I *used* to be subversive in college, but I own a yellow floral dress and have only a single teeny tattoo, so I probably meet the exclusion criteria nowadays. I am a former Buffalonian, so if you know the terms "Wide Right" or "No Goal", we can cast each other knowing glances and shake our heads in shame. While I can never reform Darwinian-imprinted sarcasm as a primary means of communication, I can admit that places that do not freeze in winter might actually be decent homes for hockey clubs. I can also tell you which English monarch authored the Magna Carta, and which grape was the genetic precursor to Zinfandel. I'm an extrovert, but somehow since I turned 30 the homing instinct took over and now all that "stuff" that there is to do within 10 blocks of my stoop is supplanted by my wildly exciting trips to the dog park or the grocery store so I can come home and spend all afternoon cooking. What I’m hoping for: I want a man I can laugh with daily. We have similar hobbies, interests, habits. We get our humor and each other. We communicate by mind-meld. And since mind-meld is not really a method of communication, we are willing to talk about stuff, no matter how tough it may be. When we get into an argument (however rare), we are able to push through it to a resolution that leads to kissing and heading to bed. Thoughtfulness is important (leaving the toilet seat up), and integrity is key. I want a partner: one who knows himself, can manage his life, has his directions and pursuits, can spell and use grammar with aplomb, is willing to give 110% to this relationship if it’s worth working as I will, and loves my four-legged snorty, farty quadruped as much as I do. We don’t need to agree on everything, but we can be willing to have each other push boundaries, and help us be better partners to each other. If you have nerdy, intellectual pursuits like 18th century British literature, stamp collecting or entymology, I might already be melting…

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 31 - 43
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Hindu
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral