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Ben

41 | San Francisco, California

Me: Healthy mix of modern and traditional values creates a happy dash of me. You: Who do you see when you look in your mirror?

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I like to figure out how things work

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Books/reading

Cooking

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Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Playing cards

Travel

Volunteering

Wine tasting

Fitness

in his own words...

Hi there! I am open to all great opportunities present in life. Life is awesome and I am making my dreams a reality. I keep a tight schedule so whenever I can I am always up to meeting positive fun people. My trusted friends call me compassionate, mature yet young at heart, generous, goofy, creative, and sometimes a tad too intense. I will let you decide which is accurate. To relax I am very happy to enjoy the sunny weather, great produce and the myriad of outdoor activities we have in the Bay Area. We still have lots of days to enjoy warm summer sun and sunsets. Don't you ever wish you can bottle up and save some sunshine to brighten up a darker day? Well, a few simple pleasures I indulge in include: hiking, the arts, and exploring our local "backyard". Despite my fascination with being outdoors, I am equally happy relaxing by browsing libraries/bookstores, being with loved ones, enjoying fresh fruit, cooking, cleaning, watching films, and long conversations with hot chocolate. I wish to meet a happy and positive lady who is healthy, compassionate and communicates honestly. Are you a "balance" guru? Have you perfected the fine art of balancing health, family, career, friends, without losing your sense of wonder? =) If so I certainly welcome a chance to chat with you and trade tips! I truly hope you embrace personal growth and are patient enough to inspire others to achieve the same. You can be serious on the important things in life, but you know, how to keep things light hearted too. Wouldn't you agree a little dash of daily silliness goes a long way? So on that note, I hope you like to laugh at yourself and the hilarious absurdities of life. Sometimes you just have to laugh along when life gettings a little nutty, right? I feel half the fun of living life is letting your hair down and embracing new adventures. So I hope you are living your life; make it good to the last drop. Thanks for reading and say hi if what I wrote resonates with you.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with parents
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 33
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Other
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral