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55 | San Diego, California

...Come join me on the journey!

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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in his own words...

There is way more to describe than I can in such a short paragraph, really. I was born and raised in Germany and as such, I am equipped with the memories and experiences of varying cultures. Everything is pretty close in Europe... comparatively speaking... and I have always been curious enough to go and look. Adventurous, honest and caring. Living life within the parameters present at any given moment, always trying to expand on those and to better myself. Not always with success, but at least I am trying... and learning. I am far from perfect (and not really perfect from afar either) and I honestly don't strive for perfection anyway, because... where do you have to go, once you have reached perfection? I like to laugh a lot, quite often at my own expense. I have done a lot of different things in my life, lived in 2 different countries and seen many more. While I am in-between major steps in my life, since I have sold my business, I am quite happy with where I am and (more importantly) WHO I am. Apparently, I am not for everyone, often too straight forward and maybe a little too opinionated here and there. Yet, I consider myself reasonably well versed in many ways. I stand by my word and don't do well with people who don't. At heart, however, I am a romantic. While I may be a little jaded, I still believe in the good of others and that I will fall madly in love with my soul mate some day... and live happily ever after. I am not very materialistic at this point in my life, I value quality time more than anything else. Time spent with my kids, friend or a lover is absolutely invaluable... I make money when I need to, not because I am trying to keep up with the jones's. I work to live, not live to work. I could write a novel as to who I am looking for, but in reality I am just looking for someone compatible, someone who will fit the bill and knows that it takes work, humor, patience, passion and the ability to compromise, to make a relationship work. Whe

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 38 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any