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Elle

43 | San Diego, California

Never a dull moment!

She sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And she also has an adventurous side.

She enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which she wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

She particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am more optimistic than most people
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I tend to be meticulous in my duties

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in her own words...

Let's see, I am told that I am funny, loving, caring, crabby (when necessary), giving, nurturing, outgoing, stylish, pragmatic, creative, nerdy, dorky, happy girl with a dry-ass sense of humor and rapier wit who loves to laugh and see others happy. My friend Robert calls me "Blasian", so have fun figuring out what's what for all of you that care about that sort of thing. One thing is for sure, I am NO Barbie, I know this is SoCal and all, but I am all natural. No preservatives. No Additives. AND a NATIVE SAN DIEGAN!!! I would like to find & meet decent humans (in every sense of the word), who can not only spell well, (or at least are no stranger to a dictionary), but speak with clarity and confidence. I am looking for people who can see beyond themselves to help others for the sake of helping and not looking for a return of any kind. I give my time to a worthy cause, and it feels so great to give to people who are appreciative, I want someone who can understand that. You cannot be homophobic, or super-conservative/overly liberal, the middle ground and the ability to see all sides is so attractive. I like a person who: is aware of themselves in every way possible, who can be the same person face to face as online, ironically, the person who has the chutzpah to tell me AFTER we meet that we aren't a good match instead of fading away, is the type of character I search for. Taking the unpopular/uncomfortable route if it means doing the right thing, knows that looks aren't what makes a person, can see beyond the beauty of the skin to the beauty of a soul, (cuz one day my skin will be old, but I have a fantastic inside!), and is willing to hang out even though I have a wigged out work schedule. Can you handle that?? If that's a yes, I would LOVE to meet you!!

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 48
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any