PRIMARY

DIRECTOR

(this is her dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Explorer

(she also shows elements of this type)

Jay

49 | San Diego, California

Looking for a connection

She is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet she has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

She gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

She tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate her rugged individualism and support of her drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct
  • It is important to respect authority
  • I am always doing new things

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Her 13 interests

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Books/reading

Cooking

Dining out

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Spirituality

Travel

Volunteering

Fitness

in her own words...

I find the world a fascinating place. Seeking out knowledge and experiences that are not in my "norm" is a passion. Every culture brings something unique and inspiring. Every language has its own melody. I'm curious about other places - their foods, their customs, their faiths. The most important thing to me about a person is the person themselves - who they are on the inside and the actions that come from them. The gift is the goal, the wrapping paper irrelevant. I enjoy peace and quiet and activities that bring peace. I love to walk by the bay or be near the ocean, though I don't engage in water sports (but it is okay if you do! I'll be happy to watch). Music is the world to me, and activities that involve music (like going to the orchestra) are important. My piano is a valued member of my family! I love to dance and would like someone to be my dance partner. I love dogs, but don't have any, so brownie points if you do! At risk of sounding "trite", i love the sunset and on a good day love a sunrise. I get a kick out of mornings, and work very early. I might not wake up singing, but will be within 15 minutes, so if you hate mornings beware! Intellectual conversations are a turn-on, but heated debates are a turn-off. I'm totally a "what you see is what you get" kind of person so am looking for the same. I despise games, don't deal well with ambiguity and despise evasiveness. I don't know how to be coy, play hard to get or jerk someone around. I appreciate candor and honesty, and that’s how I normally live my life. It is hard to put into words exactly WHAT I'm looking for - usually you know it when you meet someone - and you can also tell when it isn't right.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral