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59 | San Diego, California

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She is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When she gets interested in something, she can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire her for her knowledge and innovativeness. She derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

She is drawn to those who can balance her highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am more creative than most people
  • I tend to be cautious, but not fearful
  • I consider (and reconsider) every option thoroughly before making a plan

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Performing arts

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Wine tasting


in her own words...

Thoughts of each other bubble into our minds as we awaken. Connected whether across the sheets or across the globe. Concurrent smiles rise from our hearts to our lips. We reach out with a tender touch, loving words, a kiss… Our lives flow in tandem. Connected whether we are pursuing separate passions or sharing that which we do as one. We exercise our bodies regularly to give each other the gift of energy and beauty when we make love. We cook together or I cook while you relax your mind and then we enjoy a beautiful, healthy meal. We share a glass of wine in front of the fireplace. We share ideas, connecting. Or silence, connected. It’s all the same. We slow dance in the kitchen; we dance in public and others know we are connected, want to know our secret. We might play Scrabble, fall into fits of laughter, fall into each other’s arms. We warm ourselves with hot cocoa after a day on the slopes, with summer sand between our toes, in the glow of our lovers’ smiles. We love to witness the beauty of the human spirit through athleticism, art, dance, music, theater. We are kind and generous to each other, to other people, to animals, to the planet. Does this resonate? Are you 5'10" or taller? Do you exercise at least 4 times a week, not to include golf, bowling or 12 ounce curls (an attempt at humor)? Are you kind, intelligent, honest, and interested learning new things? Have you taken care of your health including your teeth? Do you understand that women need time and space to feel safe and comfortable getting to know a man so that we can be intimate? Do you like, not simply tolerated, animals? Yes? Then maybe you are the hero I have been waiting for!

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral