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55 | Phoenix, Arizona

Seeking a woman that loves cilantro, dark chocolate, and red wine. Passion for Asian, Mexican, or Italian cuisines desirable.

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct
  • I am very empathetic
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems

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Wine tasting

in his own words...

LIFESTYLE: Although very physically active, I also enjoy staying in and sharing a movie and a bottle of wine. I'm equally at ease atop a stallion, watching an opera, debating philosophy, going to a museum, cooking for and hosting a dinner party, or just chilling out. I wasn't sure what to put for body type - jockeys and competitive eaters are athletes right? I'm told I'm like hugging a padded oak tree. PERSONALITY: "You're going to like me or not - I tend to expedite that." Life is short. Much like Popeye and his stated "I yam what I yam" view of life, I decided long ago to be myself and to own that. If anything, the older I get, the more true it feels for me. I am very accepting of others and have what some would say is an eclectic group of friends and acquaintances. As I value being genuine and kind over material wealth, you may find that to be true of my friends as well. Others I spend time with because of mutual things we like, or enjoy disliking, one of us finds the other entertaining, etc. I truly enjoy people, I think everyone has some interesting life stories to share. And any woman over about the age of 35 has amazing life stories. As about 99% of people aren't from here, it's pretty easy to get a conversation going if they're in the mood to talk. "Where you from? How'd you wind up here? I'm attracted to women for how they are, rather than how they look. Chemistry is so hard to put into words, but so easy to recognize. Either we'll have it, or we won't. Much like the sky being blue - it's neither good nor bad, it just is. From what I read, this OKCupid thing is good at finding people you'll get along with. You'll have to figure out the chemistry thing on your own. What I'm Looking For: What follows is a hypothetical personals advertisement: Seeking a woman that loves cilantro, dark chocolate, and red wine. Passion for Asian, Mexican, or Italian cuisines desirable. Familiarity with [[spatchcocking]] and [[Sweet Baby Ray's]] will als

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 36 - 56
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral