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Tom

62 | Orlando, Florida

Control life, or it will Control you.

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs

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His 17 interests

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Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Fishing/Hunting

Gardening

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Spirituality

Shopping

Travel

Watching sports

Wine tasting

in his own words...

Laugh out loud. As I get older I realize more and more that I may run out of time before I will be able to understand women. However, I do know that no matter what she wants or what she does, I will bring more and more of it to make her happy. That is what couples do for each other. Both of my daughters are engaged to be married. I want to have the feeling they are having now. They are my biggest trophy, as evidenced by the quality men they are going to marry. I want my lady to make me better than I am. Inspire me to do better, let me hurt myself working out, keep herself in shape, listen to all my fears and tell me hers. Once you open those "communicate anything gates", everything will get better. My friends know I am honest, I work too much, I don't abuse my body, would help them with anything with just a phone call, smart, happy, strong, conservative, worship fidelity, never angry. My parents are both alive (divorced) showing me how to, and not to live at the end. I laugh when they meet and this 82 year old lady tells the 82 year old man he's looking old. Then he goes home and starts lifting weights. My social life consists of playing some golf and visiting family. I don't frequent the bars. I have had some dates, but I will tell you I am not a user. If I don't feel it I won't fake it. Fun? we go into Chilli's and sit at the bar until a booth is available. Then we introduce the people around us as husband and wife and then try to answer the ensuing questions...try it!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 41 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any