PRIMARY

DIRECTOR

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SECONDARY

Explorer

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Erika

37 | Miami, Florida

When your mind says give up, hope whispers one more try....

She is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet she has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

She gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

She tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate her rugged individualism and support of her drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • When I buy a new machine (like a camera, computer or car), I want to know all of its technical features
  • I am more optimistic than most people

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Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing Sports

Politics

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

Fitness

in her own words...

Basic synopsis of me: An honest, optimistic, witty (so I'm told), brutally blunt to a fault...fun loving girl, who loves to laugh, loves to talk... and equally loves to listen. My sense of humor runs the gamut from the simple to the dark...Honesty is crucial for me, as well as kindness. I hate insensitivity, and of course cruelty is just unforgivable. The primary emotion which propels me through life is one of gratitude. (I think it's the only emotion that's completely incompatible with any form of negativity.) Family's very important to me, and I'm definitively an animal lover! I am looking to meet a gentleman who is kind, transparent, intelligent, disciplined, and driven, but who also knows how to have a good time, laugh at himself, and enjoy this beautiful life. My grandmother always told me... “Strive to become like the man you have always wanted to marry.” I have found this advice to be profoundly true, as I believe that we are attracted to that which we are. (Resume's do not impress me, been there, done that.) I choose to go within. The human person is who attracts me. The man inside. The compassion. The humility. The humanity. The simplicity. I am looking for someone who can challenge me, not disappointed me, strengthen me, and inspire me. Someone who can allow me to let down my walls and be vulnerable, and not have to set boundaries to protect my heart. Someone who can embrace my spontaneous side and allow me to follow my heart instead of my head and to live for the moment a little bit more. Someone who understands, that I love myself way too much to stay connected to him, if he is not going to love me enough... I think that when that someone comes along, as a woman, you just know. It feels good and it feels right. Biggest pet peeve: Jealousy. Which I consider to be a very dangerous emotion. Disclaimer: If you are on this site to play the field and/or prey on some Damsel in distress. Trust me, I get it. No judgements. But please, do not bother re

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 33 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral