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59 | Washington, District of Columbia

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She is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet she also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those she loves.

Because she is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, her close friends admire her. Yet her complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

She is attracted to someone who can complement her-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am very empathetic
  • I have a wide range of interests
  • I enjoy competitive conversations

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I'm African American and 100% lesbian. I don't "identify" as lipstick or butch, but a cross between the two. I love to read, sing, nuts about old movies, like to travel; however, I'm equally at ease staying at home or chatting on the phone. I also enjoy walks in the moonlight, park, or by the beach/shore. I enjoy talking about spirituality, politics, education, social matters, life and love -- and also a good listener. My faith is extremely important to me and I am a licensed minister at Covenant Baptist United Church of Christ on track for ordination in 2013. I do need to make something clear, which may have some asking me to turn in my lesbian card...I DO NOT LIKE DOGS. I don't care how cute, cuddly, or special you think your Poochie, Princess, Puddin', (or whatever the dog's name) is, I WILL NOT walk, talk to, feed, care for, or in any way, shape, form, and/or fashion, engage the dog. If you are closeted - not out to family and friends - DO NOT contact me. I refuse to live your lie. If you do not have a picture posted on this site but take the time to send me an email, include a picture. Hmmm -- what else? Oh yeah, nuts about children, highly intelligent, witty, and SINGLE. Where friends are concerned, I'm loyal to a fault. Please, if you're one of those shallow women who "has enough friends" and/or wants to meet, merge and marry, don't respond. I believe the foundation of a lasting, meaningful relationship ON ANY LEVEL must be based on respect, trust and friendship; to receive and give either takes time. I know I am extremely and continually blessed, but I want someone to share my home, heart and life with - someone to come home to. I am seeking a life-long partnership with a woman who is spiritual, HONEST, educated, HONEST, articulate, HONEST, romantic, HONEST, kind, humorous, HONEST, family-oriented, sure of herself and her sexuality and dedicated to putting the effort, time and emotional commitment into building a lasting relationship.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral