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48 | Washington, District of Columbia

Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values
  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct
  • I have a wide range of interests

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in his own words...

At this point in my life I'm very focused. I have a creative side to me as well as an entrepreneurial spirit. I work a lot of hours, but when I have free time I like to relax. relaxing can mean listening to music, writing poetry, or reading. I love sports, especially basketball. Working out also relieves me of any stress. I prefer lounges, spoken word or live music over clubs (been there, done that). Oh yeah, I love to cook. For those of you who think chivalry doesnt exist, you're wrong. I'm in no hurry, but I'm not about games either. The woman for me is strong and confident, and she recognizes that the world is not about her. She is not co-dependent and she does not believe that men are inherently evil or manipulative. She has a unique perspective and a deeply rooted belief that she can change the world. She is educated, not just by formal schooling but by her own desire to learn. My ideal match would be spiritually strong. A woman who is down to earth, grounded, and confident with who she is. She is goal-oriented and driven, much like myself. She knows what she wants. I like a woman who is into her health. She brings a certain level of energy, and has a positive vibe about her. My ideal match will be capable of trusting a man, and she'll be able to recognize that she has a good man by her side, but before we even get to that point, I'm just looking to meet someone that could also be my best friend. Whatever materializes after that is cool, but we crawl before we walk.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 42
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any