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58 | Washington, District of Columbia

Looking for an adventurous, open-minded man with a warm heart and imagination

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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in his own words...

Hello, bonjour, hol?! Thanks for checking out this ad. I am a single, gay professional living in Washington, D.C. I am 54, 5’8”, 180 lbs – a good-looking guy hoping to create a long-term relationship with a masculine man between 35 and 50 (give or take a few years…) Where you happen to live is less important than your personality and compatibility. Two men who love each other don’t have to live down the block from one other… but they do need to be committed. For the relationship to succeed, it means working towards building a life together. I am looking to attract other positive energies and avoid negativity. I don’t feel comfortable reading ads that say, “You must be like this, you can’t be like that.” I know that many people, including myself, have been disappointed or hurt in the past, but I don’t want this to define me or limit my future experiences. Who am I? I am sensitive, adventurous, inquisitive, open-minded, loyal, devoted, compassionate, tender, assertive, romantic, affectionate… I am just as comfortable with a partner curled up on the couch watching a movie, or at a dinner party, or travelling, or sleeping under the stars. Who are you? Hopefully you share some of the traits I have just listed. But I am not looking for a mirror image of myself. I am looking for another man who is kind and open-minded and generous. Someone I can introduce to my 82-year-old mother in Florida, so that I can say, “Mom, this is is the guy I want to share my life with.” Acceptance by family and friends is not a requirement… but isn’t it great when it happens! I don’t drink or take drugs, but I would not want to control my partner’s choices. I love exercise, meditation, and yoga as ways of keeping centered and strong. I am grateful for the health and possessions I have. Although I am not religious, I pray every day – but don’t wish to judge my partner’s belief system. I am looking for a man who is strong and asserts himself – who has a good sense of who he

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any