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67 | Washington, District of Columbia

Artist. I can stand on my head and perform other interesting parlor tricks. Guitar player and composer.

He is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

He is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and he can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others he is just like them.

He is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out his flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

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in his own words...

I'm a writer, composer, and film director with a long career in the arts. A smart, funny, wasp, comfortably situated; an INFJ, always busy with some project or another. Fun is not a four letter word. I'm an unusually honest person. Looking for LTR. I'm an Independent with both Progressive and Libertarian leanings. I'm calm and stable, with a good moral compass; also smart, funny, and basically content. I've had a lucky mix of freedom and adventure in my life. I've been a meditator for the past ten years. Columbia University, Julliard I read a lot. Novels; literary essays; music, film, and theatre books; history; psychology; philosophy; popular science; Eastern spirituality. I love strong, independent women. Someone who's happy with herself; pretty, kind, witty, creative, and fun. As someone who works in the arts myself, I'm biased in favor of creative types. I love to talk shop.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 44 - 56
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral