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Jay

32 | Washington, District of Columbia

Loving life, just looking for a guy to complete the picture.

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values
  • It is important to respect authority

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in his own words...

People in my life would likely describe me as gregarious (love love love creating crazy memories with friends, and meeting new ones), relatable (likely why I work in a helping field), and ambitious (both personally and professionally). It seems like I've been in higher education for a decade (because I have), but I still love the work I do and look forward to it every day. I'm a doctoral candidate studying higher education/student affairs. I'm hoping to defend my dissertation within the next year, at which point I'll be on the faculty job market (hopefully securing a research- and teaching-focused position, fingers crossed). My advisor requires that I refine my 'elevator speech' describing my dissertation topic, so feel free to ask :) I've recently moved into a studio apartment (first time living by myself and loving it). Most nights you'll catch me dissertating at a coffee shop (gladly accepting recommendations for new venues), enjoying a dinner party at a friend's house, or working/volunteering on campus. There is nothing more attractive than a man with passion and compassion. I hesitate to indicate specific characteristics that I look for because there are many different men who attract me. I envision chemistry and the potential success of a relationship like a reciprocal give-and-take, where each person feels equally validated and vulnerable (in the best ways possible). I hope to find that magic synergy with one special guy. Feel free to hit me up if this vibes with you.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 35
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral