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48 | Washington, District of Columbia

Not content to sit on the couch, I'm gonna grab all the experiences I can steal outta this life!

She is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

She is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and she can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others she is just like them.

She is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out her flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I am very empathetic
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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Playing Sports



Wine tasting


in her own words...

Challenges are what shape our personalities, teach us about ourselves and others, and make our lives exciting. My wacky family and crazy childhood could have been the basis for a memoir much like The Glass Castle or The Liar's club. Instead, it created empathy for those less fortunate. My 17 year marriage forced me to examine my flaws, improve my communication skills, and build walls around me. The failure of that marriage has left me learning how to break down those same invisible walls. Physical challenges, such as marathons, skydives and Crossfit PRs make-up a portion of my bucket list. That same list includes personal goals such as earning my Master's degree, growing an herb garden and making the best damn BBQ brisket east of Texarkana. I like a good challenge. Even in my friendships, playing the part of the Devil's Advocate always brings out the best banter. Now at 47, I'm looking for someone that is just as challenge ready as I am. He will be one to join my fight against a mediocre middle life. His foil to my strong personality will force me to to examine myself just as he will want to do as well. He and I will not hold the same opinion but we will learn from each other's beliefs. We will face life's difficulties together and surmount them, just as one day we might gaze at the base of the Incan trail only to arrive at Machu Picchu within the week.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 37 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral