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35 | Washington, District of Columbia

You can't judge a book by it's cover. A little library humor from a pole dancing Librarian! :-P

He is popular, trustworthy and dependable. However, He has an impetuous, spontaneous, fun loving side which also makes him exciting.

He admires people who are traditional, responsible, precise and orderly, yet spontaneous, socially savvy and affable.

He likes a partner who has good manners, old-fashioned courtesy, unambiguous values and social grace. Nevertheless, he tries new things and explores new ideas and he particularly likes people who share his energy and curiosity.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct
  • I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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in his own words...

There's more to me than meets the eye! Just because I'm a Librarian doesn't mean I'm a boring nerd. Likewise, just because I pole dance doesn't mean I'm wild and loose. What you get with me is a healthy balance in between. An intellectual who likes to have fun! A respectable gentleman from the country sticks of North Carolina where we still say "Yes Ma'am" and "Yes Sir", prefer hugs over handshakes, and still hold the door open for ladies. Someone you would be proud to bring home to mom and also exciting enough not to worry about being bored to sleep! I deeply value love and intimacy. So much so that I'm currently 6 years celibate. Intimacy is more special and intense with someone you love. I'm a very emotionally calm and centered person. Never prone to fits of anger, sadness, or depression. I take great steps to insure that I'm balanced and grounded. Smiling and functioning very efficiently in a crisis is one of my strong suits. I'm very tolerant and friendly. I love people and animals. And most of all I love to encourage and uplift people. I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind me being a bit...different. Someone who's as unique as me with a zest for life. Someone who's really ready to leave all their baggage behind and face the world with a new age optimism. Someone I can play video games with, watch anime, stretch on the floor and do yoga with while watching TV. Go dancing on a Saturday night then cuddle on the couch in soreness and exhaustion afterwards. Someone independent and strong with a tough exterior but secure enough in themselves to cry on a good Disney movie. Someone I can meditate with and sit outside and enjoy the beauty of nature. Someone with a great sense of humor and spontaneity. Someone who won't look at me half crazy when I want to all of a sudden just want to play on the monkey bars on the playground. With me it would be best to leave your judgments and preconceptions at the door because that's where I left mine.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 35
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any