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Ben

48 | Washington, District of Columbia

What the heck?!

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I like to work in a straightforward path toward completing the task
  • I am very empathetic

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Camping

Gardening

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Travel

Wine tasting

in his own words...

I’m looking for the same thing we all are ( Of course my narcissism assumes I know what that is), A loving relationship, someone who accepts me for who I am- not who they think I may become, A person with whom I can laugh with and will find my quirks something to endear not to be endured. These qualities I deem reciprocal. I fully understand that the qualities I have described are wholly subjective ...so...to be short... I request that you be totally hot, vapid, and be willing to conduct a torrid unemotional physical affair. Oh did I mention that I can be sarcastic? I hope the preceeding paragraph sheds some insight into my personality. In general my personality is laid back and I believe people universally seek happiness. The path we take on this quest is as varied as the number of individuals partaking in the journey. To be cliched, I feel a loss for words to interestingly describe how I enjoy my days. I can be quite content to sit under a tree and read a book, as I can to go on a hike, or a canoe trip along the Patomac, have lunch with fiends, learn how to hang glide or watch a movie in the middle of the day. As I see it the key is enjoying the company you keep. For us to be a match; you should understand that the first paragraph was tongue in cheek and be interested in knowing why it's called that( i really dont know and I keep forgetting to look it up). Also know that I am a devoted father and the role does take up a good portion of my time, but it does not diminish the importance I place on the role of my 'partner ' in my life. Finally, please be a strong, confident and inteligent woman. I find each of those traits as sexy as any physical one that I could possibly list. Thank you for reading this far and I wish you all the best in your search.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 33 - 48
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any