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35 | Washington, District of Columbia

Laughing Through Life

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • On my time off, I like to be free to do whatever looks fun
  • I like to avoid the nuances and say exactly what I mean

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Dining out






Playing cards


Watching sports

Wine tasting


in his own words...

I'm 29, mixed, masculine, in shape HIV+ gay male living in Washington DC that enjoys all the normal stuff life has to offer. I work hard but still make time to relax and enjoy life. I can hold my own in a conversation about politics or advanced research and development for medical countermeasures but I can also recite a million and 15 lines to almost any romantic comedy/chic flick that's ever been made. Love going out and having fun but am also just as happy cooking a nice meal and watching a movie at home. Love dogs, have an amazing German Shepard named Cyrus. What am I looking for? A man whose secure in his own skin and can adapt to any environment. Someone who loves to laugh and strives to never lose sight of the bigger picture. An adventurer who loves to try new things and isn't scared to take the path less traveled. A man who isn't scared of sex. Someone who remembers the little things and isn't scared to take my hand in private or in public. A guy who knows the difference between an argument and a discussion and that there's a time and a place for both of them. A partner who fully respects and honors the word 'partner'. And above all else, a man who can get me hard just by kissing me. Sappy? Maybe. A bit vulgar? Possibly. But I figured I should be honest in what I'm looking so I don't wastes anyones time. I've lived a full life so far and I'm very excited to see where my 30's are going to take me. I know who I am, where I'm headed, and am learning from my mistakes. My hope is that some day I can find a man to share the next stages of my life with. If it happens, great, if not, oh well. Happy hunting mates.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 29 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral