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55 | Washington, District of Columbia

Interesting man desires interesting woman for bed, bath, and beyond! Tom

He is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. He quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

He likes to engage his friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

He seeks a mind mate. He likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I have a wide range of interests
  • I enjoy planning way ahead
  • My friends would say I am very curious

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in his own words...

I love children- one of my own, now grown, I love him more than I can say- but I had a vasectomy a few years ago so I won't be creating any more. Okay, I confess. I really enjoy the company of a pretty woman. I am not talking about the Hollywood definition, but the type of woman who enjoys a man's interest in her, what she likes, what she wants, and notices and responds warmly to his respect for her. Remember Gilligan's Island? The great debate for men has been "Ginger or Mary Ann"? Ginger is an attractive woman, but requires six hours of preparation just to walk out to the mailbox, but could not help with what needs to be done. Mary Ann always looks twice, and if it snowed a foot overnight, Mary Ann would not only get up with the man at 5 a.m. so he could shovel the driveway before work, she would make a hot breakfast while he shoveled, and then, help him warm up in the shower, giving him a hand! Beauty and relationships are measured in many ways.... I am healthy, clean, articulate, have never used drugs, and I am well mannered and considerate. A bit old-fashioned, perhaps, but not chauvinistic or condescending. I enjoy giving flowers, learning what my partner likes and doesn't like, and discussions as intelligent, rational adults. Does size matter? Of course, when one understands that the most important sex organs are the brain and the heart! Tom

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 18 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any