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54 | Washington, District of Columbia

Honest Humanitarian & Eternal Optimist

She enjoys the pleasures of the senses, yet she is firmly grounded in reality.

Because she is broad-minded, adaptable and playful, as well as dependable and loyal, she can be an exciting yet stable and dedicated friend and colleague.

She seeks a partner who is moral and cooperative. Yet she or she has to have her level of energy and curiosity too.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • Debating is a good way to match my wits with others
  • It is important to respect authority
  • I like to avoid the nuances and say exactly what I mean

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in her own words...

I'm a happy, intelligent and down-to-earth woman with a kind heart and an independent spirit. I like to laugh! I love recreational (not competitive) cycling, fly fishing, camping, hiking, Major/Minor League baseball and live music (rock and roll, blues, old time/folk). I love my job and feel lucky to work where I do. I'm active in my local community, swimming at the neighborhood pool, singing with a garage/studio band, and volunteering. I like physical activity and work out a bit but I don't count calories or obsess about my figure. I'm shy at first yet warm up quickly - friends say I'm an extrovert. I'd like to learn to play more instruments and sing more often. I'd also love to travel to out-of-the-way places. I have not posted my real photo because I have had some negative experiences in the past with on-line dating and I'm cautious. However, I will send a photo once I get to know someone. People say I look like Emmy Lou Harris now (see the profile photo of her), and Natalie Wood and Mary Steenburgen (when I was younger). I'd like to meet an attractive, intelligent, articulate, calm, and stable man who loves children, dogs, and being outdoors. Family and friends must be important to you. You appreciate women and treat them with kindness and respect. You see the light and goodness in everyone, including the folks you meet on the street and the crew who cleans your office. You like having direct conversations with your beloved and you can agree to disagree on occasion, keeping in mind all the things you love about your sweetheart and when conflicts arise, accepting apologies when offered in a heartfelt way. I don't expect a perfect mate - we all have our personal goals - I have mine and I work at them. Doing meaningful work for humanity and/or the environment is a bonus! I find noble, natural men to be incredibly sexy! And I'm an eternal optimist!

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Silver
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral