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60 | Washington, District of Columbia

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She is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

She is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and she can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others she is just like them.

She is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out her flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I feel emotions more deeply than most people
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I am more enthusiastic than most people

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in her own words...

My friends say I'm fun, insightful, caring and intelligent; energetic and attractive; strong and friendly with a good sense of humor. (They wrote that while I watched the Grammys.) I'd add that I'm easy-going and flexible, sometimes unpredictable, honest and decisive. I have a yearning to grow and learn, value integrity, courage and a good turn of phrase. I have varied interests. I'm passionate about Aikido and sustainable food systems; love music, movies, art, animals, being outside. I listen to NPR in the morning, get the NYT delivered to my phone, follow current events and scientific discoveries. I travel for work and pleasure but love to go home to the hills of western massachusetts. I'm equally comfortable with public speaking or reading and writing in the privacy of my home. I'm grateful for my friends and family, good health and agility, for having work that I believe in. I laugh out loud watching Stephen Colbert and when chickens skid with wings outstretched across the ice. (I miss having chickens!) Chemistry is unpredictable but beyond that initial rush of attraction, I'm looking for a man who is confident and comfortable in his own skin: someone with integrity and passion who is at once dashing and daring, tactile and affectionate, who lives in the present and cares about the fate of people and planet. I'd like to attract someone smart and sexy, who is articulate and can communicate physically as well as verbally, who is caring, considerate and makes me laugh. I've stored my baggage in the overhead bin and am ready to fly. So if you're looking for some combination of friend, lover and a traveling companion, drop me a line.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Grey
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Jewish
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral