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41 | Washington, District of Columbia

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He is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

He is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and he can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others he is just like them.

He is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out his flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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in his own words...

I'm 36 and come in at about 5 foot 6 inches weighing 130 pounds (probably when wet). I have a certain bent towards melancholy that's tempered with self deprecating humor - so it never becomes melodramatic. I enjoy laughing at myself especially when someone else can point out the humor in my circumstance. I very often drift into wondering what it's all about but do it with a child like filter that never makes for a serious, "woe is me," sentimental aftertaste. I like to laugh, dream, imagine and am thrilled by the freedom of self-expression particularly in story form. I'm very often wrong but just as quick to understand why. I'm funny and try my best not to trip on my point of view. I have friends who I've recently distanced myself from because I needed some "me time." I'm sure they probably won't be there when I'm done, but ... alas. I'm looking for someone articulate who knows what they want and who can communicate that to me without making it seem like a war against their freedom that somehow I've instituted (don't you hate that?). In other words, I never want to have a conversation where it feels like I've put someone on their back in the defense posture. I'm sure there's more ...

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Black
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 33 - 35
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree