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Matthew

32 | Washington, District of Columbia

Faith in others can lead to pain within our hearts as can devotion and regret, but We cannot feel joy if there was no pain.

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • Taking care of my possessions is a high priority for me
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • I have more energy than most people

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Travel

Wine tasting

in his own words...

How do you start talking about yourself when you're trying to impress and not seem arrogant? I'm a nice guy and we all know the euphamism. I'm also abrasive. I've been told that the way I say things is confusing to others, so I take my time explaining. My memory is very precise. People normally consider themselves when interacting, but since my memory is more than just me it is hard for others to ubderstand such a big picture in so little words and unable to sit stool for such a long explanation. So I try to make life exciting. I believe a wise man must know he doesn't know everything... err I hope that means that I am wise. I like meeting new people because I can learn a little something every time I start a conversation, and I think connections throughout the world are the only way we as a race can triumph over inequality. I like people who are understanding and compromise. Here is what it is. I'm searching for a woman whose interest in me just makes it easy for me to be myself and for her to be herself. Yeah We gotta have mutual respect and interest in each other, but I hide my interest now. I'm jaded though.. I have never had a true beautiful relationship. I was in a serious relationship for three years. I built a person who secretly hated me and only wanted to use me. I continued purposefully though. I know most of the mistakes made in relationships now, they are not eeast to make. So now i'm kind of in a relationship rut. I'm trying to work on myself and my own life; though, I still would like a companion. I think I am a little vain, . I want a woman who takes care of her body and wants to be healthy with me. I could be a real health nut, but flavors can be so good I have lost a bit of dietary control since i'm not cooking. I enjoy meaningful conversation with the occaisional lame joke thrown in. Grab my bum when I bend down to pick that rose for you. I believe in God, but I'm not spending half my sunday in church, are you serious?! I like to d

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Other

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 22 - 34
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral