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51 | Washington, District of Columbia

Rediscovering Myself. So far it's kind of fun.

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct
  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values

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in his own words...

There's no better time to learn to juggle than when the balls are already in the air. Nothing comes without risk. It’s a lesson learned late, but I’m beginning to grasp its meaning. Writing about myself is difficult. Coming from a New York Irish family, praise is often considered blarney. Self-praise is just ridiculous. I am the best looking man I see in the mirror everyday. My wit is sharp, with sarcasm and self-deprecation as my preferred means. There are many people that like me, and they all come with a wide array of excuses for doing so. My history is complex, filled with deep meaning and nuance, but I am a guy, so take that for what you will. I hustled pool in college. I defeated my best friend for three months straight at bowling. I ride horses for the fun of it, been swimming since I was kid on Long Island, and I go to the gym because I’m enjoying the results. To me, baseball is a game to be watched, and football is that game with the funny shaped ball. I don’t gamble because I don’t believe they should call it gambling if you never win. I come from a blue-collar family that stressed education and a belief that an adult should contribute to society. Making the world a better place is a bit much, but helping people one at a time is do-able. I believe that integrity is not optional, but I understand it’s a goal more than an achievement. The older I get the more important honesty becomes, in myself as well as others. I work in an office, dream of writing, and love being a dad more than I ever thought was possible. I only laugh at funny things but never stop finding stuff that falls into that category. No matter how bad you may get, how down or depressed, a platypus is still kind of funny. I have new plans for my life and my future. I am a work in progress, and progressing quite nicely, thank you. There is a very specific type of person that I'm looking for. When I find her I'll fill in more of those details. I imagine affection, trust and kind

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral