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Helen

51 | Washington, District of Columbia

“A kiss is a lovely trick, designed by nature, to stop speech when words become superfluous.” – Ingrid Bergman

She is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

She is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and she can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others she is just like them.

She is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out her flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I am always doing new things
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships

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Her 13 interests

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Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing Sports

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

in her own words...

How to create a bridge and get to know one another in cyberspace? I recently read in Arnold Modell’s brilliant book “Imagination and the Meaningful Brain” that the mind/brain creates its own virtual reality, so it may be possible to suspend disbelief and get to know each other online just a little bit. About me, you may have guessed I’ve just started a doctoral program and have my head in the books quite a bit. I also have a full-time job as the director of an academic library. No, you don’t need a PhD to get to know me, just an inquisitive mind, a willingness to laugh at silly things, and the strength of your own interests. When I look around, I see the herbs and plants on the balcony. Yes, I like to cook, mostly without a cookbook though I have been known to sit down and read straight through any interesting one. I also see the artifacts of a life lived in Europe for ten years as well interesting eclectic pieces of furniture and mostly original artwork on the walls. In a few minutes, I’ll be headed out the door with my two dogs for a good walk around the neighborhood. We try to go for a longer walks at Haines Point or beyond at least once a week. About you, you are independent and thoughtful, at times ridiculous and know when to laugh. You are not perfect (and understand that I have my flaws as well). You are passionate about things that are important to you. You like your work and know when to put up your feet and relax. I’ve recently been in the mood for Scottish films, “Local Hero” and “Dear Frankie.” But I will close with the paraphrase of a favorite quote from the Australian “Cosi”—“There’s not a whole lot of real love out there. If you can believe for just one moment in a magical world…”

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Grey
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 43 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral