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John

46 | Washington, District of Columbia

I am not who you see, but I am who I am.

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • When I see two people madly kissing in public, I’d rather not look
  • I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day

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Camping

Dining out

Movies/Videos

Music

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Travel

Watching sports

Wine tasting

Fitness

in his own words...

I think that people who know me would describe me as a very funny, very witty, and big-hearted person. I am confident in the fact that I know that I am intelligent and can hold my own with anyone. I am good at many many things, but great at none. I am politically incorrect and hate walking on egg shells around people who are. No relationship is ever going to be perfect, and one thing that I strongly believe is that if you get in an argument with your significant other you should never walk away or go to bed angry. Grudge holding is destructive. Also, people who don't communicate do not give their signicant other a fighting chance at ever satisfying them in any way. I have been to many places on this planet, but I don't consider myself to be well traveled. I am relatively successful as an architect, and I can't think of any other job that would suit me so perfectly, but I would certainly never say that my job defines me. I am also a musician, and I would say that is what defines me more. I have certainly not been an angel in my life (I have had my "rock star" moments), but I am a fundamentally good person. As far as women go I wouldn't say that I have a particular type. Looks are definitely important to me, but I also need a woman who is kind, likes to laugh, is not easily offended, and is relatively intelligent. I can't do stupid. If you are doubting yourself right now just remember that flakey is not stupid. I'm flakey. By intelligent I mean that you don't resort to saying things like, "I don't know... stuff and things?" when you are trying to communicate an idea. I want a woman who is cultured, but no pretentious. I don't want to go to a winery and talk about the varietals... I want to go to a winery and get buzzed, take in the scenery and maybe make-out. I'll go to the clubs sometimes, but I prefer relaxing in a dive bar. Staying home and watching a movie is always a good time, too. I believe that a girlfriend should also be a best friend.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 41
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree