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John

61 | Washington, District of Columbia

Make me laugh, dance with me and kiss my ear softly

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I think it is important to be direct
  • I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me
  • I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day

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in his own words...

Energetic, inquisitive and fun. 6 ft, thin, athletic and muscular/wiry, blondish/brownish hair, medium length - like to laugh and smile. I enjoy athletics as well as a variety of cultural activities. I like movies, opera, dancing, running, soccer, swimming, beaches, reading, day-dreaming. I am divorced, with 3 daughters - two off in College. The youngest is with me about half the time. I'd like to meet somebody who is fun, relaxed, attractive, intelligent, reasonably fit and likes kids. I like to think I am all of those things, but I am not looking for my mirror image. I would like to meet somebody that is just open and who generally sees the glass as pretty full - somebody that sees the humor in everday things and likes to laugh out loud. I think it is a bad idea to try to narrow down one's "ideal match" - because then you might just miss Ms. Wonderful walking down the street who doesn't precisely fit your preconceived ideas. I find a very wide array of women attractive. The physical attraction is important, but so is the spirit that shows up in that sideways glance, the big laugh or the sly smile. (Naturally, I'd like to avoid some negatives - people who like to argue, power-trippers and control freaks, snobs.) My view of the world is that we are all struggling with something, so its best not to be judgmental.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $150,001 to $200,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 54
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any