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43 | Washington, District of Columbia

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She is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, she can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

She is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in her relationships.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I have a wide range of interests
  • It is important to respect authority
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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Who am I? An ever evolving answer but here are the basics and mainstays...I have a pretty good sense of humor, athletic (former college athlete), adventurous, open-minded, curious, analytical, intelligent (so they say), and in general I am pretty balanced. Of course, I am not perfect so I am giving and nurturing (sometimes to a fault), I am persistent but you would probably refer to it as stubborn. I have learned to be dependent on others but I am not your damsel in distress either. Do not confuse this with me not knowing how to let a man be a man. Without question, I love to see a good man bang on his chest every now and then and show me he is my protector and treat me like the queen I am...ok, got a little carried away. Anyway, so what am I looking for? To start, that occassional banging on the chest, intellect is a must, trusting and respectful, open-mindedness (no box least not all the time), adventurous ( I would love someone who can expose me to more and/or who is open to being exposed), men who love and respect their mothers and all of the other women in their life, has dealt with their "issues", can handle getting challenged during a workout by a woman (haha), loves hot weather destinations, can handle not being involved in my children's lives (2...and no mas)...unless you are that guy, and in sum, is emotionally, spiritually, physically, and financially much as we all can be. Yes, a lot of qualifiers but is there really a 100% match out there? Guess time will tell. And to the guy who challenged my skeleton of a profile...thanks. But...I am still not posting a pic; however, if we seem like a potential match...just wink or email and quality conversation will definitely lead to sending my pic (and yes, my boys think I am a "hottie")

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • $150,001 to $200,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 52
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral