(this is his dominant personality type)
(he also shows elements of this type)
I promise I will only call you nine times a day
He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.
People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.
He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.
A few excerpts from his personality test:
- I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
- I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
- I am always looking for new experiences
His 12 interests
in his own words...
Me: My heart is pure and my mind is clear. And I occasionally believe fortune cookies. Also, I'm bad at long division, and I'm really really wonderful and unique and very attractive. Of course all that is just hearsay... I like to engage in cool conversation and creative cooking. Recipes are to cooking like the phrase "So what do you do?" is to conversation... Not that I purport to be some kind of Michel Richard of dialogue, just saying what I like. I *will* ask trite questions when I've exhausted all my other material. Which sometimes is sooner than later. Oh, and of course I like traveling and bike riding and cute animals like Kibibi, the baby gorilla and going to shows and movies and exploring the great outdoors and liberal politics and good wine and ice cream and long walks on the beach at sunset and so on. You Comfortable with yourself. Capable of feigning elitism. Not smarter than me (which would eliminate everybody so scratch that) Reasonably uninhibited but not a stripper. Unless you are really special, in which case I could maybe learn to accept. You hopefully have some things like music or films or knitting or theater or are in a band or a book club or *something* you are into, or have some amazing skill you can wow me with. Ok, I'll settle for just a halfway decent open-minded personality with a smidgen of a sense of humor. You will laugh at me when I don't "get it" rather than try to explain. You don't melt in the rain like the WWOTW. or run screaming at the sight of Dogbabie (evil-incarnate stuffed animal I received as a gift, please ask for a photo). Hopefully you like clever and also not-so-clever acronyms, bad jokes, good jokes, and needlessly wordy emails. And almost-rudely-so terse text messages. Well, enough of this nonsense...thanks for looking.
- Live alone
- Single (never been married)
- $50,001 to $100,000
- Dark brown
What he's looking for:
- 30 - 45
- Every once in a while
- Some college
- Associates / Technical degree
- Bachelors degree
- Graduate or professional degree
- PhD / Post Doctoral