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58 | Washington, District of Columbia

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She has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

She seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

She likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement her restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values
  • I feel emotions more deeply than most people
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

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in her own words...

Thank you for stopping by this "lotus" corner. Lotus is not my real name but a flower I hope to embody the qualities and spirit of. Like the lotus, I am sincere, sensual and generous. Like the lotus, I live to be beautiful inside and out with daily care of myself through meditation, holistic arts (tai chi and yoga) and dancing. As a lotus, I believe that I know myself and what I want from life after years of soul searching. I am considered an all-rounded and balanced individual. Professionally, I am well-educated, well-traveled, successful and respectful of others. Emotionally, I am passionate and romantic with an open heart and strong faith in love. I enjoy many interests -- arts, dancing, travel, reading and writing, esp. poetry, movies, to name a few. I love to take care of you, giving you body and soul massages, and cooking you special dishes you may not get elsewhere. Also I love to be taken care of by you with whatever you are good at . . . . I am fun loving, affectionate, and energetic. What I value most in a man is a kind, open and loyal heart and who embraces an ideal larger than himself. Hopefully you are a balanced and all-rounded individual with the temperament to remain calm and respectful in times good and bad. It will help if you appreciate East Asian cultures as I grew up in Asia. It will help if you adopt a holistic approach to life as I believe that is what will allow us to get most out of life. It will surely help if you are the type of person who is willing to put in the effort to cultivate a life-long romance and friendship, making the rest of our lives the best of our lives.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 59
  • relationship history:
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Jewish
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral