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64 | Washington, District of Columbia

Passionate mature guy seeks fit and trim younger guy with sense of humor.

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions
  • I like to figure out how things work
  • When I buy a new machine (like a camera, computer or car), I want to know all of its technical features

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in his own words...

I'm a mature low key guy. I have many interests and too little time. I have a creative side (gardening, cooking, home improvements, photography, even my professional programming is creative). I'm a big foodie and enjoy coming up with new food ideas. I like to travel to interesting places and enjoy great food at its source (like my 2001 bicycling trip to France where I enjoy beef bourguignon in Burgundy). Although I enjoy living in a city and could live elsewhere depending upon the circumstances, I like visiting all kinds of places, mountains, beaches, cities, villages. I'm pretty busy with many projects and enjoy being active. . Be forewarned: I'm a punster. I am liberal but not particularly political. I'd like to know someone who is not afraid to walk around a new city for hours on end and experience it all. Or one who'd enjoy sea kayaking or hiking up a mountain (maybe after a bit of training). One who would enjoy ending up the day cleaning up, enjoying food and drink and passion. One who would enjoying trying new dishes and experimenting with me in the kitchen. I know that it sounds superficial, but I am very keen to know one with a firm trim belly. Mine is not but would enjoy working with someone to improve it. Sexually, I am very safe and very healthy even though I've been hiv positive for eighteen years. I know the intense enjoyment that can be had safely. Please don't let that be a deal breaker.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any