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58 | Washington, District of Columbia

"I want gaiety, laughter, ha-cha-cha. I want to dance. I want to dance till the cows come home." (Groucho Marx)

She has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

She seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

She likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement her restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

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Her 12 interests

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Dining out





Performing arts

Playing cards




Wine tasting

in her own words...

So who will you see if you meet me. A woman who relishes a good meal, loves the theater (I miss Broadway, but the Arena has been amazing), and is always up for a movie (Almodovar, Jonathan Demme, noir and thrillers, though a good part of my heart belongs to 30s comedies). I’ll even admit to some serious TV love (nothing matches “The Wire” in my view, but I did become a “True Blood” addict). Someone who delights in travel – last year, Peru for an amazing two weeks, Antigua for one, and regular weekend forays to connect with friends. You’ll meet an advocate who loves her work (indigent defense), and always has: that is a strong and unquestioned passion for me, and one I feel very lucky to have. You’ll see someone who craves words and wordplay, whether in another’s wit or my favorite fiction. (Right now wishing the Kindle said I was more than 32% through “Nicholas Nickelby.”) And you’ll meet a person who is deeply connected to her friends. Some are here in DC, others are scattered around the country, from all different parts of my life. Once you get to know me better you’ll learn the finer things: that I crave red meat, don’t revel in early rising, and miss my parents. If there’s sun outside I’m basking in it. You’ll see that I don’t care much for rules, except the grammatical kind; that I know the words to most anything by Stevie Wonder; that I wish I went out dancing more. Decent coffee is a must and real chocolate borders on sublime. You’ll find R&B oldies in my ears at the gym and unread New Yorkers in my apartment. I hope you’ll see that while I love going out, I’m looking for more reasons to stay home. And you – what do I hope to find? It would be great if you were smart and irreverent and found humor even in the bleak. Kindness is critical. I hope what you do matters to you, that you’re interested in what happens in the world and want to talk about it. Liking to explore and travel would be a bonus. I hope you basically like your

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 43 - 63
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral