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47 | Washington, District of Columbia

I really can't complain...who would listen anyway???

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • I am always doing new things
  • I enjoy competitive conversations

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in his own words...

Take the time to reflect on those that have helped us become the people that we are today. I thank God everyday for my family and friends and hope that he sees fit to bless me and give me the strength to continue to strive for greatness. That said, where do I start? I love just about everything about women. The way you smell...The way you walk...The way you turn your face up when we do something to get under your skin. I love when you're getting ready to go out with your girls and you come to me with a couple pair of stilettos and say, "Baby which ones do you like?" Stuff like that melts me. I'm a simple guy looking for a simple woman. Someone that's educated and driven to succeed. Someone that loves to laugh. Someone that's soooo sexy, she can stop traffic when she walks down K St. Someone that respects those that respect her. A partner. I'm kind of big on the small things; how can I expect someone to do the big ones if they can't handle the small things. It has taken me a while to understand that a good relationship is about giving and not just recieving. I'm not perfect, but I am able to grow as a man. I think the woman that understands that is in for a treat. I don't want to give it all a way so you'll have to ask me the rest later. I have to add this...Are there any women out there that remember how to be women? Damn ladies, why so tough? I sure miss the softness of a woman. I know this is a dog eat dog type of area, but wow...Just saying

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral