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43 | Washington, District of Columbia

Life is like a bowtie

He is popular, trustworthy and dependable. However, He has an impetuous, spontaneous, fun loving side which also makes him exciting.

He admires people who are traditional, responsible, precise and orderly, yet spontaneous, socially savvy and affable.

He likes a partner who has good manners, old-fashioned courtesy, unambiguous values and social grace. Nevertheless, he tries new things and explores new ideas and he particularly likes people who share his energy and curiosity.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • When I buy a new machine (like a camera, computer or car), I want to know all of its technical features
  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct

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Dining out



Performing arts

Playing Sports




Watching sports

Wine tasting


in his own words...

Have you ever gone to a black-tie event and wondered why the rare hand-tied bowtie that is crooked and maybe even lopsided looks so much better than the sea of perfectly straight pre-tied bowties? It's what the Italians call sprezzatura -- the idea that there is beauty in imperfection because it's real. This principle of personal style applies to life in general as well. Life would be boring if it consisted of perfect dates right out of The Bachelor that lead to a perfect marriage, 2.5 beautiful and gifted children, and five-year plans to conquer the world. Instead, life should be about embracing the small moments -- sometimes messy, sometimes imperfect -- as they happen. For me, that means being awestruck simultaneously by the poverty of a third-world country and by the friendliness and resilience of the locals; lumbering awkwardly up the side of a sheer rock face to enjoy the incredible view of the valley below when I'm scared to death of heights; and slaving over a duck breast recipe that looks terrible on a plate but somehow tastes twice as good as anything Thomas Keller could serve up. How about you? What small moment made you deliriously happy? Scared the daylights out of you? Or made you think? As you can tell, I'm not really one for laundry lists or "types": someone who is all wrong on paper may be just what you're looking for. That said, I hope that you say what's on your mind, enjoy everything from a baseball game to a contemporary art gallery that stretches the definition of "art," and are sufficiently self-deprecating to laugh at yourself when the situation calls for it. You have an inquisitive mind and strive everyday to learn something you didn't know the day before and try something you never tried before. You challenge others without pushing their buttons. Basically, I'd like to meet a fun, smart girl who is game for anything and who can make me think and laugh. Everything else is negotiable.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 37
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral