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43 | Washington, District of Columbia

Taking a deep breath and diving into the deep end of the pool

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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in his own words...

Meeting during the day for coffee or a quick drink in the evening would probably tell you a lot more about me than the biased account you get here :). But I do play by the rules, soooo.... Driven, yet takes the time to enjoy the simple things in life. And low-drama. That's me in a nut-shell. Those close to me would say that I am a kind and loyal and if you're really my friend, I've always got your back. When first meeting me, people sometimes think that I'm a little on the serious side, but eventually they realize that I can be a goof whose jokes are just cheesy enough to crack you up. I enjoy the work that I do and feel that it makes a real difference. Like a lot of us, I put in some long days from time to time, but I make a point to leave work at work. Music is pretty important to me. I like to think that life is better with a soundtrack and my playlists seem to fit ok. And after foolishly putting it down for a couple of years, I've started to pick up my sax again and sit in with other musicians. I am looking for a woman who has a strong sense of herself and cares about the world around her. I hope that she is passionate about something in her life but doesn't take things too seriously. Maybe she is the type of lady who is up for getting dressed up and tearing up the town one night and staying in to watch a movie and just relax the next. And I hope she is the type that's always up for a laugh, either with me, or in the "rare" instances that's its necessary, at me. What's a great first date sound like to me? It really doesn't have to be anything more than a nice glass of wine, some excellent conversation, and the kind of chemistry that leaves me with a huge smile on my face after we say good night. Interested?

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Black
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 26 - 42
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any