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46 | Washington, District of Columbia

So this is what opening to Life and Love looks like!

He is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. He quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

He likes to engage his friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

He seeks a mind mate. He likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I think it is important to be direct
  • When reading, I enjoy it when the writer takes a sidetrack to say something beautiful or meaningful
  • I am always looking for new experiences

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in his own words...

I am NOT a salesman. Developing a blurb about myself is one thing that always stopped me from doing the online dating thing. Especially after I read a friend's blurb for an online dating site; it was the most clever thing I ever read (I secretly hated him for one instant, before I realized he had someone write it for him). Anyway, here it goes... When I was a kid, I wanted to become an engineer, get married at 26, have my first kid at 30, my second at 35 (need to space'em out for the college bills!), and then get old. I did do the engineer part (and even changed that). Along the way, I realized life was meant to be lived, not planned. I've been moving more toward the living part, away from the planning part. Of course, planning is in my nature, so I'll always be thoughtful about my next steps. But the last few years have gotten me to loosen up, enjoy life a bit more, take some risks, and when you fall and get hurt, pick yourself up and keep going. And now I'm looking for someone that's in roughly the same place. Someone that has that inner foundation to be secure in herself, who's willing to choose to be happy with her partner. Someone who can laugh and joke, have some spirited conversations, someone who can live through her senses as well as her mind. (I call that person "mind candy"). Someone that enjoys a short trip to a cabin in the mountains or a day trip to a vineyard or the beach as much as she does the big vacation. Someone who enjoys a good museum as much as she does a good party. Someone who can enjoy a rainy Saturday or Sunday reading the paper over some really good coffee. Someone who enjoy having a a really good meal made for her, and a good glass (or three) of wine to go with it. So let's have some fun, get to know each other, take a chance on creating someone fantastic. Yeah, it could open us up, make us vulnerable, a little uncomfortable at times. It can also be the best ride of our lives. So let's go!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 33 - 47
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral