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42 | Washington, District of Columbia

Fun-loving, Christian guy who lives by the motto "If you can't beat it, laugh at it."

He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I like to figure out how things work

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in his own words...

I am a fun-loving guy who can be analytical and thought-provoking. Although I describe myself as an introvert, I don't like to be alone. My primary love language is physical touch and my secondary is quality time. I love non-malicious sarcasm and friends who love to laugh. I drink coffee, try to avoid sugar, eat healthy and stay consistent in the gym. This Fall 2012, I start a doctoral program in clinical psychology at a University in the DC metro area. It's a five year program specializing in forensic psychology. I have a deep desire to write, speak and teach about healthy relationships, especially in the gay community. I don't know of too many couples retreats for GLBT couples, but would love to offer one. I used to work as an executive director of a 48-bed assisted living facility in the metro DC area. I had a $4M annual budget and 50 people who worked for me, but gave it up to pursue my doctorate and obtain my dream of being a psychologist. I could spend 20 years saving a corporation millions, but would rather help people (and make a good living at it). :) I am a protestant Christian who is deeply in love with Jesus Christ despite the fact that I'm gay. I grew up with a Pentecostal/Charismatic background, but have learned that God can't be put in a box. I can't stand religion, but love spirituality; loving God and loving people is what life is all about. I've already been partnered with a rich man and I'm not impressed. Actually, I'm not willing to compete with a man's "things" for his affection. Yup, "things" are nice, but doesn't bring happiness. I'd rather meet a guy whose really into me than a man who flaunts his money in hopes on attracting a "hot guy." I am looking for a man who loves to laugh, is comfortable with appropriate PDA, loves touch and is committed to eating healthy and working out. I process by talking, versus thinking, and need to be with someone who is willing to listen as much as he talks. I believe that com

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 42
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral