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John

66 | Denver, Colorado

Looking for common ground, intimacy, connection and laughter. Need you to be attractive to me, but equally touch my heart &mind.

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am more optimistic than most people
  • After watching an emotional film, I often still feel moved by it several hours later
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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in his own words...

You are like me if: You look ahead rather than behind – you’re more interested in what can be than in what has been. Life is an adventure, filled with promise and with laughter. You are always wondering what is over the next hill and around the next bend. You like trying new things to savor the experience and to see what happens. In a relationship, the most important thing to me is a sense of connection and rapport. Other things matter, but not nearly as much. People over-focus on lists of attributes: height, age, education, job, sports, hobbies, beliefs – all that stuff. With a sense of connection, the rest may sort itself out; without connection, the rest won’t matter. I’m looking for some commonality of viewpoints and approach to life, but with enough differences to make things interesting. I’m a mostly laid back guy. I’m warm, informal, and humorous. I’m going to want you to tell me about yourself, your journey in life, your hopes, dreams and passions. I mostly like informal events and entertaining, but I occasionally want to go out for a more upscale evening. I’m affectionate. I like to give and to get affection, especially in the small things. Far more than the occasional grand gesture, the simple little gestures, words and touches seem to me to be a big part of what makes the relationship worthwhile, and say “I love you.” For me, a good relationship is going to be one where we are both comfortable being ourselves. It’s better to enjoy each other without a lot of interpersonal drama, walking on eggshells, etc. I do some travel, and would like to share the trip, when possible. I take a lot of photos. Looking for interesting shots helps me notice what’s happening all around. That’s what I like about artists: they notice things the rest of us miss…. I'm serious about a healthy lifestyle, although I'm not a fanatic - diet, exercise, thinking process, etc.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 54
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any