PRIMARY

BUILDER

(this is her dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Negotiator

(she also shows elements of this type)

Paula

57 | Denver, Colorado

I am looking for someone to grow old with, share my life with, and can still stand talking to 20 years from now.

She tends to be traditional. She feels deeply responsible for just about everyone around her and can be fiercely protective of those she loves.

With her stoical attitude coupled with her dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, she often becomes a central and effective player in her social and business networks.

She is attracted to those who share her values; she admires those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy her orderly and compassionate nature.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I am more analytical and logical than most people

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Her 18 interests

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Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Fishing/Hunting

Gardening

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Shopping

Travel

Watching sports

Wine tasting

Fitness

Photography

in her own words...

I belive the key to a successful relationship is that autonomy is just as important as wanting to be together. You don't always have to agree, but respect for each other is a must. I was married for 20 years and have been divorced for 10. It took time to get over the loss of what I thought my life was going to be and figure out who I am and what I want. Life is better shared. I currently smoke and being in the healthcare field I know better and am trying to quit. I want to be able to still do the things I love and play with the grandchildren my girls are going to have someday. [I am glad they are being smart about marriage and babies but....] I am looking for someone who accepts the opposite sex for what they are. I think Steve Harvey hit the nail on the head [Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man]. We have to understand how they think and feel and let them be who they are.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 50 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral