PRIMARY

DIRECTOR

(this is his dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Explorer

(he also shows elements of this type)

Tom

43 | Denver, Colorado

Serendipity strikes

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me
  • I am more creative than most people
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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Watching sports

Wine tasting

Photography

in his own words...

I only recently moved to Denver, am still settling in, and would love to find someone wonderful who can show me around! So, about me? I do Project Management work for a living these days, as part of a long and either interesting or boring (depending on your field) career in IT. PM work is a great challenge - I need to get things done while having no power whatsoever over those who need to do it. I guess it call comes down to charm, eh? Well, in any case, I'm good at it, I enjoy it, and it keeps the lights on and the wine glass full. I'm seeking a long-term monogamous relationship with someone who has confidence, smarts, and goals, and with whom I can share everything. No extreme baggage, no unnecessary drama. Great communication right from the start. An open mind, broad interests, and emotional availability. A real enjoyment of intimacy and exploration. A desire to build a relationship rather than hoping it'll fall into your lap. Lots of smiles and quick laughter, but the ability to be serious when appropriate. Kindness, affection, respect, and honesty. It's okay if you haven't "made it" yet, as long as you have a direction and are working to achieve it: I'll be your biggest cheerleader. All of the above applies to me, too. I'm complex but not enigmatic - not hard to figure out, once you realize that I always say what I mean and mean what I say. I don't play emotional games, lie, or cheat. I'm eager to share my ambitions, joys, desires, and fears with someone who really wants to know me completely, and who wants to share the same in return. I'm here for a purpose: to find an extraordinary woman to be my friend, teacher, student, partner, lover, playmate, and confidante. Take a shot, and let's make it happen. As long as you're completely honest - with yourself and with me - I promise that you won't be disappointed.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $150,001 to $200,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 42
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any