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48 | Denver, Colorado

B4 u criticize someone, u should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when u criticize them, u r a mile away and have new shoes

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I get restless if I have to stay home for any length of time
  • I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me
  • I am more enthusiastic than most people

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in his own words...

I am certainly what people would call "laid back". I am shy and sometimes find it difficult to approach new people. However, I am working on this and it seems to be bearing fruit. I also have a great sense of humor (some might say warped) and people seem to be drawn to that part of my personality. At least that is what my friends say. I am a very friendly person and try very hard not to be judgmental. Life is too short and what's the point. Life is hard and we all do the best we can. I am separated from my wife and the divorce should be finalized shortly.I haven't dated for 18 years and I am looking to put myself back in the dating game. The idea of trying to meet a woman in a bar or club is nerve wracking as I haven't done it in such a long time. I'm hoping to meet someone who wants to take things slow. I am looking for a woman who is fun, has a great sense of humor, and doesn't take herself or life to seriously and doesn't take a year to make up her mind. I want a woman who will tell me "like it is". No beating around the bush. I've dealt with that for a long time and I don't want to do that anymore. I like spontaneity and a woman who doesn't mind doing things at the last minute. A bonus would be a match that loves golf and skiing as much as I do. Not sure what else to say. If I come up with something that I might think would be an interesting tidbit, I'll try to remember to add it. Otherwise, good luck and send me an e-mail if you are so inclined. Winks are OK (are they really! Kind of reminds me of when I first started taking notice of the ladies when I was in 4th grade. I'd have my buddies say things like.....John thinks your cute or my friend likes you) b/c they don't say much and because we're adults. Oops, went off a little bit. However you would like to make contact will be nice.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Grey
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral