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Tobie

54 | Denver, Colorado

Is it just me?

She sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And she also has an adventurous side.

She enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which she wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

She particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me
  • Long established customs need to be respected and preserved
  • I am tough-minded

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Cooking

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Museums

Music

Performing arts

Playing cards

Shopping

Travel

Volunteering

in her own words...

Is it just me or has dating changed leaps and bounds over the past several years? Where have all the good guys gone? Whatever happened to courting, opening doors, flowers and planning dates? With all this texting, sexting and sending photos, there is nothing left to the imagination. People seem to be laying it all out there creating a lack of mystery and allowing the falling in love process to happen. Are there any men out there that mean what they say and say what they mean? Any of you man want to date a woman your own age? Any men who understand the meaning of treating a girl well? Any men who still want to spoil and be spoiled? How about emotionally available and mature? I'm just sayin..... I would rather be healthy and alone than to be in an unhealthy relationship. I am a one man woman and am not looking to serial date. If you are, I am not your girl. I covet music, my 20 year old daughter, poker, film, arcitecture, vintage decore and much more. I am affectionate, attentive and loyal. I love to laugh and live to travel. I am very sexual and believe that is very important! I would like to spend the second half of my life abroad near an ocean or on a house boat. I love to deep sea fish and snorkle. I would like to meet a man that is well groomed and well dressed. I also would like to meet someone who has a nice home and enjoys all that that entails. I am not into drama or fighting. I am not a serial dater nor promiscuous. If you are, I am not your girl. I am a bit of a home body, yet active so my home is very important to me. I have friends of all ages and love to learn new things. I am dying to jump out of a plane! My ideal man is smart, funny, affectionate, loyal, successful, honest and well rounded. Is that too much to ask? I am looking for a partner in crime, chemistry, passion and the rare occurance of true love. So, if you really do aspire to have a happy and healthy relationshp, shoot me a note!

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Auburn / Red
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any