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60 | Denver, Colorado

I can't be all things to all people...I can only hope to be that special man for one very special woman...I'm looking so hard to

He is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. He quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

He likes to engage his friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

He seeks a mind mate. He likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct
  • I am more enthusiastic than most people
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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in his own words...

It is a difficult thing to summarize my self/my life in a few paragraphs but I will try. I am a working professional who is looking for an addition to his life, his soulmate if you will, although I think that statement is overused. I am 5'10", 200, stocky, athletic build...dark brown and gray (yes gray!!) complete head of hair with sleepy green eyes. I am fit as I workout every day, but still could lose a few pounds (hey I am over 50!). My youngest son is 17 and will be gone to college in about a year and although I will miss him horribly (like I miss my oldest son who is a sophomore at CU) I am looking forward to the freedom that being an “empty nester” will bring. I seek this certain combination of intellectualism, caring, honesty, warmth, comfort, sensuality, ethics, healthiness, and independence in a woman. I am looking for a partner...not someone to take care of...or vice versa. Someone as financially secure as I am at this stage of my life. I want to meet my best friend and lover and grow old in her arms. I often relate to friends how one evening last fall I went to a movie alone. The theater was packed and there was only one seat that I saw open...and it was beside an older couple....maybe 65-70 years old. Throughout the whole film they were holding hands and exchanging smiles and glances...and occasionally he would pick up her hand and kiss it. I remember leaving there thinking....this couple is genuinely in love....I want to be one half of a couple like that. I don't want to be doing this every year....I am looking for the last love of my life. I know..."idealistic thinking"...but I think “she” is out spite of the fact I am currently single.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Separated
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral