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54 | Denver, Colorado

simple is good

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I find unpredictable situations exhilarating
  • Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions
  • I am able to solve problems without letting emotion get in the way

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in his own words...

banker by day, spiritual practioner always. i'm a bit of a creative/artistic type and adventurer. never take myself too seriously, or others. i believe but there is an element of divinity to this existence. and so i live my life conscious of that divinity, and honor its existence in all of us. i think that through love, relationship, we get in touch with our deepest elements as humans. there's nothing perfect about this life, yet in accepting this, we can find purity. i seek a relationship where i can be wise and foolish, serious and silly, sincere and unsure, whole and torn, brave and scared. i yearn for a kindred spirit, one with whom peace comes naturally, yet who drives me to utter frustration at times. someone i am completely comfortable with, yet completely bothered by at times. a beatiful phrase from The Prophet says: "when love beckons you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep...And when he speaks to you believe in him, though his voice may shatter your dreams. If in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness, and go into the seasonless world, where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears." Of course i want to laugh all of my laughter and cry all of my tears, together. I respect a strong, secure, beautiful (inside and out) woman. beauty seems to emanate from a kind soul. my partner can count on a truthful, sweet, loving, supportive man who will communicate through issues and live a life of integrity. i seek a deep soulful connection. i won't settle for anything but a profound, deep love. Someone for whom as Rumi says "I want to kiss every lock in your hair, for the lover, there is no choice, i want to steal away in your alley at night, but do not fret, for the lover, there is no choice, i want to be free from the shackles of being without your love, i have no choice". i'm a romantic, but only for one, The One. i have spent

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 46
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Hindu
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral