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51 | Denver, Colorado

Perchance to dream, there's the rub.

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems
  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I am always doing new things

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Dining out




Performing arts


Wine tasting

in his own words...

Hi. :-) I'm (still) reading a great book about what makes for a lasting relationship. Interesting stuff based on a 20 year longitudinal study of both happily and unhappily married couples. Know what the single most important factor was in the successful relationships? Similar personalities? Common interests? Socioeconomic factors? Nope. It was the ability to resolve conflict. In fact some of the happiest couples had very dissimilar interests and personalities. They were just very good at negotiating - and resolving. It's more than communication. And harder. As you can see I'm a little more focused on the "why" of relationships than the average guy. Probably a little more expressive and communicative too. Yes, I expect to actually talk with you. Early and often. Which is not to say that I'm not a male at heart. Just a balanced one. I have raced cars and read every Victoria's Secret catalog that came my way (The articles of course!). But I can cook, clean, and put the seat down too. Your parents will love me. They always do. Your cat will purr in my lap and your dog will beg me to play. Oh, did I mention I can do massage too? Long, sensual, make the world go away by candlelight massage. I am a member of the Denver Art Museum, the Nature and Science Museum, and the Botanic Gardens. I'm the guy who helps the little old lady get milk from the top shelf in the grocery store (It's good to be tall.). The guy who holds the door for you and uses the proper silverware. The one who can't resist laughing. A bit of a foodie. I tend to do better with partners who don't have a lot of "I don't like that". I am looking for the rarest of gems. Someone who has learned how to listen.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral