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53 | Denver, Colorado

Looking for a lifeboat in a sea of chaos.

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first
  • When making a decision, I like to stick to the facts rather than be swayed by people's feelings

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in his own words...

Healthy, usually sane, pretty fit, serious, silly, curious, freethinker, left of center, both unconventional and traditional, homebody, cautious risk-taker, compassionate, loyal, great listener, sometimes sensitive, sometimes sardonic, slightly moody, truly decent guy who identifies as gay but doesn't really get the whole Gay Thing. I'm not part of the "scene" and from what I have experienced, don't want to be. The sarcastic, insecure, shallow part of the gay experience is something I don't identify with. I guess I'm looking for someone similar who is more into true, authentic connection based on real human needs, desires, goals, rather than what car you drive, your prestigious zip code, or how many times you've been to Europe. Every day life with every day issues and the simple joys of being with a like-minded guy is my ultimate goal. Someone who can actually have a face to face conversation and doesn't rely on facebook for his connection with other human beings. Someone who is relatively fit and wanting to work on getting more fit together. You want to be healthy but are not obsessed with attaining the completely unrealistic goal of the Perfect Gay Physique. You don't view drugs and promiscuity as recreational sports. You're a traditional kind of guy in some respects, but aren't afraid of that other side of you that's a bit more edgy, unconventional. To close, I have to say that I'm terrible at dating and really don't like it. I also realize it is a necessary evil in finding the guy that I am still seaching for. Maybe you can identify. If so, I hope you'll let me know.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any