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Erik

38 | Denver, Colorado

2nd Chance

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me
  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I would rather have loyal friends than interesting friends

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Camping

Cooking

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Museums

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing Sports

Shopping

Travel

Watching sports

Fitness

Photography

in his own words...

I fell in love at a young age. I knew how to love but I didnt have the decision making skills to be a responsible husband or adult. That comes with time. Men or boys dont really learn to communicate. Are range of emotion goes from happy to mad. It took me along time to be able to come home and say I had a bad day, to share those emotions and work them out in a healthy way. I used to just close myself off and supress my feelings. My outlet for this was to indulge in self destructive behaviors. If an indivdual is self destructing they will take down the person closest to them. It is a fact that saddens me. My relationship was a victim of this vicious cycle. To many men like me are unable to get out of this untill it is to late. If we cant communicate how we feel we either push you away by pissing you off or we cheat. Either one, gives you a perfectly good reason for leaving. Because this cycle has become a social norm, many woman have lost the desire to trust and let anyone get close because of this. Alot of woman allow themselves just to be content. and they settle. Never wanting to risk that kind of pain. I blame myself for the deterioration and destruction of my relationship, because I can only change myself. I want a second chance. I want to find selfless love. And I want to spend what little time we have left in this world loving a woman the way she deserves to be loved.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • Less than $25,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 32
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any